Herman

Never forget, while you were crying over that person, they were smiling with someone else.While you lay awake at night, they were peacefully sleeping beside another.While you were breaking down in silence, they were carrying on like nothing happened.While you were waiting for their message, they were texting someone else with ease.And they did all this without guilt, without a second thought about you.The truth is, sometimes "sorry" isn’t enough, Not even close.Some people only feel bad when they get caught, not because they hurt you, disrespected you, or made you feel worthless.When you truly love someone, you're loyal, both in front of them and behind their back.Forgive if you can.But if you can’t, don’t force it.Not every action deserves forgiveness.Not betrayal. Not dishonesty. Not disrespect. Not unfaithfulness.And if you need to cry, cry.But when you're done, stand up and move forward.That’s the real revenge, healing.It’s the kind that doesn’t hurt anyone,but shows your strength to everyone.

DECISIONS: I think about decisions in three ways: hats, haircuts, and tattoos.Most decisions are like hats. Try one, and if you don't like it, put it back and try another. The cost of a mistake is low, so move quickly and try a bunch of hats.Some decisions are like haircuts. You can fix a bad one, but it won't be quick, and you might feel foolish for a while. That said, don't be scared of a bad haircut. Trying something new is usually a risk worth taking. If it doesn't work out, by this time next year, you will have moved on, and so will everyone else.A few decisions are like tattoos. Once you make them, you have to live with them. Some mistakes are irreversible. Maybe you'll move on for a moment, but then you'll glance in the mirror and be reminded of that choice all over again. Even years later, the decision leaves a mark. When you're dealing with an irreversible choice, move slowly and think carefully.

WHY PEOPLE CHEAT❔Let’s try a rational approach to this topic using an example.Remember back in school when you sat next to that person who always cheated on tests? No matter what, they’d lean over and ask,“Hey, what did you get for number four?” or “What’s number four?”Did you ever think to yourself, “Damn, why are they always trying to cheat?”It’s because they weren’t prepared for the test.They never took the time to study or ready themselves for what was coming.Eventually, you realized you didn’t need to question why they were cheating, you just knew.They were unprepared. And you didn’t blame yourself for it.You stopped asking, “Why are they cheating?”So, why do we do the opposite in relationships?When someone cheats on us, why do we take the blame and not hold them accountable?Your partner was the one who wasn’t prepared. Prepared to communicate, to handle conflict, to stay loyal when the relationship was tested.Every relationship will go through its trials. That doesn’t mean cheating is the answer.So when someone cheats on you, understand:It has nothing to do with you,and everything to do with their lack of preparation for the tests that relationships bring.If you’ve come across this post, know this:You are one of the most precious people to read this message.If you ever find yourself in this situation, don’t hesitate to return to what this piece is saying.You are a gem 💎 meant to be valued.And if someone doesn’t value you,there is no space or room for them in your life.

QUICK REMINDER: Life has an unsettling talent for braking you down not in one swift blow, but in thousands subtle ways. It crumples you like a fragile piece of paper, twisting your spirit with pressure, failure, and false promises. It makes you feel insignificant, undeserving, and at times, utterly invisible. There are days when even breathing feels like a burden and standing up feels impossible. Life whispers lies that you are not enough, that you are too broken to be whole again, that you will never rise from the mess you’re buried in. But here’s the truth no one tells you often enough: Your worth isn’t diminished by the weight you carry or the cracks you collect. I’m fact, it’s trough those cracks that your light begins to shine. Resilience isn’t about having a spotless soul, it’s about daring to exist despite the chaos. Your pain doesn’t define you; your ability to endure, adapt, and still belive in your worth does. Psychologically, we are conditioned to seek validation from external outcomes, grades, jobs, relationships, appearances. But self worth isn’t tied to productivity or perfection; it’s routed in your mere existence, your essence, your fight to keep going even when you don’t have all the answers. So when life tries to fold you into silence, remember you were never meant to be small. You are not what happened to you. You are what you chose to become in spite of it. You are more powerful than your darkest days, and more resilient than the world has yet seen. So if you’re lucky enough to read this today, just keep smiling, like Mario here.Whether your hands are full of Rolex or full of pain, your smile is still your power. ✨You’re worth more than the weight you carry. Keep going. 💪🏽❤️ #resilience #keepgoing

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